I have matched dozens of men with women on Ashley Madison by coaching them through the steps that get them there. I’d like to say I’ve developed a technique that works, but I really didn’t develop it – I just use it. If I told you what it is, you’d ...(More)
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Men often don’t know how to approach a woman on a married dating app. Because of that, they either drop a generic greeting like “Hi” or “Hello” or go straight to sex. Both are turn-offs but for different reasons. The generic greeting gives her nothing to respond to, which is ...(More)
Make the sex worth it. I didn’t fall into my affair by accident. I didn’t get drunk at an office party or take an interest in my neighbor. I chose to have an affair without a potential affair partner on the horizon. I didn’t even know how to get there. An affair ...(More)
The seedy motel where they know my game I booked a sex date with my lover last Friday night but it was hard to find a room. That Friday morning, I texted, why don’t we have a sleepover? I love a sleepover because orgasms like the ones I have tire ...(More)
Don’t be a clown: a warning for men Photo by Quino Al on Unsplash I read a story recently that said every woman in online dating has a man talking to themselves in her inbox. I couldn’t help but smile because it’s so true. I can confirm! Recently, Syd popped ...(More)
The Impact of the 2015 Data Breach Photo by Joey Nicotra on Unsplash Tonight, I found myself alone with a glass of wine and my notepad, so I decided to delve into Hulu’s The Ashley Madison Affair, a three-part series that takes a deep dive into Ashley Madison’s stunning crash ...(More)
And I help them build it a quip at a time Rocky VIIII— Swing and a Miss (Screencap: Author) Rocky VIIII: Swing and a Miss Him — Yeah dear Suzie. I see a great connection when I imagine you. Me — I see a border and a nine hour drive. ...(More)
Navigating adultery for men is what I do now Photo by Dave Hoefler on Unsplash I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over four years — first as a meek gal searching the unknown married dating space. Then, the second time to reprise a lady’s first time on the app about ...(More)
And the answers they seek Photo by Taras Chernus on Unsplash When people hire me to review their adulterous profiles on Ashley Madison and draft some opening messages for them, they usually have some questions. That’s normal. I don’t mind sharing my knowledge, because I know there’s a difference between ...(More)
I dropped my Ashley Madison User Guide prices for you! At $50 each, and $100 for three, I’m sure men weren’t willing to risk the money. What I know that they don’t is my guide’s work. They contain everything I learned working with dozens of clients. I’ve sent thousands of messages ...(More)
Hello my friends, Thank you so much for being there for me! I just wanted to share a short note to let you know that I’m thinking of you this holiday season! It’s cold and snowy in Canada, but after meeting with my lover this week, the fire’s still burning ...(More)
I needed to get away In a sexless marriage, even fun things are tinged with sadness. The sun, surf, and sangria can only take you so far when you know that’s all you’ll get. I won’t have sex, and I knew that, but the cramped quarters rule out orgasms of ...(More)
I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over four years – first as a meek gal searching the unknown married dating space. Then, the second time to reprise a lady’s first time on the app about two years ago, and I still maintain that account. And now, as I write this, ...(More)
Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine had consulted ...(More)
I started chatting with Goose81 on Ashley Madison (AM) three or four weeks ago. He’d sent me a nice message and fit my 40+ criteria, just by a hair — thank god! It was casual at first because I was still chatting with the first-timer, I’ll call NewGuy here. Goose also said ...(More)
If you want to keep your finger on the pulse of Adulteryland, Reddit’s r/adultery is where to look. There are 129K members there, all interested in one thing — cheating. This Redditor had never crossed the line, but had cheated online and was wondering what was on the other side of the ...(More)
My lover wrote this and asked me to publish it. It’s a story about napping, which was something we started doing together on our last vacation, and I have to say, it was like heaven on earth. Teresa is a lot of things, but one I like the most is ...(More)
As I entered the hotel lobby, I saw him sitting in a chair, patiently waiting for me. We were both a little early, him more so. We had the room from 9:30–4, but it was a little before nine. I figured they’d let us in as soon as I checked ...(More)
I didn’t have much luck with Ashley Madison (AM) searching for a girl. I received one nice message but was disappointed to discover that to respond, I would have to buy $94.90 worth of credits! I’ve had a couple of girls “wink” at me, but again, to do anything, I’d ...(More)
When I hear a woman referred to as a mistress, I don’t see myself. I picture a beautiful, young, educated, unattached, and unflappable woman. She’s dressed in black, sitting at a bar in an upmarket hotel, sipping a Manhattan, Cosmo, or Aperol spritz — waiting for another woman’s man. Waiting patiently. Waiting ...(More)
I recently traveled to Italy with hub to visit friends. Was I worried about covid? Of course. Was I worried about missing a connection or losing baggage? Yes. But what worried me most was crossing into the US with a secret. My secret? Having an affair, writing about it — extensively—and making money from ...(More)
I have boobs. I love them. They are big and get all the stares when I wear the right top. I often wear the right top. They no longer stand to attention, but hang, ravaged by the passage of time, gravity’s pull, childbearing, and life. But with the help of ...(More)
Hi ya! You can check out my latest email broadcast here! What were they complaining about? I guess they were missing my Friday email!!! I love those guys! Teresa ...(More)
There are many benefits of using day rate hotels as a cheater. First, they’re convenient if you can only meet during the day and don’t want to have sex in the car. You can also use day rate hotels to fly under the radar with privacy and anonymity, as some ...(More)
Trying to find a new sexy friend is a pain in the ass. By find, I mean to find one that’s right for me. If I wanted to jump on any old cock I could probably find one today and fuck it tomorrow, but that’s not my scene. I created ...(More)
Men! You need to write original messages. Every. Single. Time! See that picture above? When she sees a bowl of cheese macaroni, she’ll know she’s not the first girl to get one from you. When she sees your message, she’ll know if it’s copy pasta, and she won’t like it. Why ...(More)
Is it wrong to amuse yourself? In many ways, it is, but when it comes to cheating I think it can be allowed. I’m not twice Rocky’s age, but I am old enough to be his mom, so if he wants to play with the big boys and girls, he’d ...(More)
I was reading an r/adultery subreddit thread and came across this idea called the rubber band theory — what happens when you pull back from an affair partner (AP) without telling them why. It made perfect sense. For context, the original poster talked about her clingy AP and how he ...(More)