Don’t wear out your pandemic lies, it’s not over yet The problem with the best lies is that they don’t age well with use, so you have to dole them out sparingly at the best of times. At the worst of times, your opportunities to fit cheating into your regular life ...(More)
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When my son walked past us in my lover’s car, I thought it was over It was a typical end to a wonderful night that almost ended in disaster. Like other nights when he drives, we parked at the end of my street to drop me off. While chatting, I looked ...(More)
Seriously, Anne Landers probably made more people horny Am I complaining about sex writing again? I sure am! I’ve written some erotica and have gotten some nice compliments on it, but my heart isn’t in it. I am a nerd, and I fall in love with a story just long enough ...(More)
You are being hunted, so act like it A Toronto private investigation (PI) business reports a 30% jump in investigations since the beginning of Covid and sees 250 to 400 clients a month, and many are related to cheating. Why? People are going stir-crazy, but there are other concerns like your cheating ass ...(More)
When “sink the pink” becomes “sink the pig” It is hard to get behind a cheater at the best of times. It’s harder when you have a pig cage, a river nearby, and a precedent dating back 600 years. Not realizing it was Friday, the 13th, I’m sure the cheater didn’t ...(More)
Never leave her feeling you aren’t grateful for using her body When my husband and I were having sex, he would often fall asleep for a few minutes after his orgasm while I cleaned up. We weren’t incredibly snuggly, though, but I wasn’t as needy then either. By needy, I mean ...(More)
I owe it to my husband. My cheating will hurt my husband when he discovers it, and I doubt he’d ever forgive me. He is as committed to seeing our marriage through as anyone and wouldn’t stand for me stepping out. So, if he found pictures of me with my lover, it ...(More)
https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved/up-next?utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=social&utm_content=2020-9-12&utm_source=facebook.com ...(More)
Why I wrote a book about adultery. Sex is the easiest part of an affair. Getting there safely, in the most discreet manner possible, and getting home again, without giving away clues is much harder. While we can all see the scene in our mind of the spouse coming home ...(More)