Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine had consulted ...(More)
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As I entered the hotel lobby, I saw him sitting in a chair, patiently waiting for me. We were both a little early, him more so. We had the room from 9:30–4, but it was a little before nine. I figured they’d let us in as soon as I checked ...(More)
When I hear a woman referred to as a mistress, I don’t see myself. I picture a beautiful, young, educated, unattached, and unflappable woman. She’s dressed in black, sitting at a bar in an upmarket hotel, sipping a Manhattan, Cosmo, or Aperol spritz — waiting for another woman’s man. Waiting patiently. Waiting ...(More)
I recently traveled to Italy with hub to visit friends. Was I worried about covid? Of course. Was I worried about missing a connection or losing baggage? Yes. But what worried me most was crossing into the US with a secret. My secret? Having an affair, writing about it — extensively—and making money from ...(More)
I have boobs. I love them. They are big and get all the stares when I wear the right top. I often wear the right top. They no longer stand to attention, but hang, ravaged by the passage of time, gravity’s pull, childbearing, and life. But with the help of ...(More)
I was reading an r/adultery subreddit thread and came across this idea called the rubber band theory — what happens when you pull back from an affair partner (AP) without telling them why. It made perfect sense. For context, the original poster talked about her clingy AP and how he ...(More)
Men often don’t know how to approach a woman on a married dating app. Because of that, they either drop a generic greeting like “Hi” or “Hello” or go straight to sex. Both are turn-offs but for different reasons. The generic greeting gives her nothing to respond to, which is ...(More)
To serve my clients in the best possible way, I read a lot of profiles on Ashley Madison (AM). Not to go, all Men are from Uranus, and Women are from Venus on you, but there are differences. If I were to divide men and women into two categories, I’d say ...(More)
I didn’t choose this life, friends; it chose me I’d love to show you my video, but I’m not sure you’d like the angle or the camera work (GIFs: OSUGA.com) If you told me six months ago that anyone would think of me as a sexy social influencer a couple of ...(More)
One text can destroy your life Me: Watchadoin? Hubby: Want to fuck? What? We hadn’t had sex in nine years the day I sent that text, so I was shocked by his reply. He’d never even write something like that when we were having sex. What was happening? I asked myself. When I traveled, ...(More)
Go ahead, I’m listening November 8th, 2020 DEAR TERESA: How can I introduce myself to a housewife? DEAR NEIGHBOR: Very carefully. DEAR TERESA: Do you groom more or less than your partner? DEAR MR. CLEAN: More. DEAR TERESA: Do you turn a blind eye to your husband’s unfaithfulness? DEAR WOULDN’T YOU BE LUCKY: I’m the cheater, ...(More)
Dear Teresa: Quora’s answer to Dear Abby DEAR TERESA: Why was I the sidechick? DEAR SIDECHICK: Because you weren’t first in line. DEAR TERESA: Should a husband be possessive and insecure if his wife is drop dead gorgeous? DEAR SHE’S WITH YOU DUMMY: No. He should be proud she chose to ...(More)