I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over four years – first as a meek gal searching the unknown married dating space. Then, the second time to reprise a lady’s first time on the app about two years ago, and I still maintain that account. And now, as I write this, ...(More)
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Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine had consulted ...(More)
I started chatting with Goose81 on Ashley Madison (AM) three or four weeks ago. He’d sent me a nice message and fit my 40+ criteria, just by a hair — thank god! It was casual at first because I was still chatting with the first-timer, I’ll call NewGuy here. Goose also said ...(More)
If you want to keep your finger on the pulse of Adulteryland, Reddit’s r/adultery is where to look. There are 129K members there, all interested in one thing — cheating. This Redditor had never crossed the line, but had cheated online and was wondering what was on the other side of the ...(More)
My lover wrote this and asked me to publish it. It’s a story about napping, which was something we started doing together on our last vacation, and I have to say, it was like heaven on earth. Teresa is a lot of things, but one I like the most is ...(More)
As I entered the hotel lobby, I saw him sitting in a chair, patiently waiting for me. We were both a little early, him more so. We had the room from 9:30–4, but it was a little before nine. I figured they’d let us in as soon as I checked ...(More)
I didn’t have much luck with Ashley Madison (AM) searching for a girl. I received one nice message but was disappointed to discover that to respond, I would have to buy $94.90 worth of credits! I’ve had a couple of girls “wink” at me, but again, to do anything, I’d ...(More)
When I hear a woman referred to as a mistress, I don’t see myself. I picture a beautiful, young, educated, unattached, and unflappable woman. She’s dressed in black, sitting at a bar in an upmarket hotel, sipping a Manhattan, Cosmo, or Aperol spritz — waiting for another woman’s man. Waiting patiently. Waiting ...(More)
I recently traveled to Italy with hub to visit friends. Was I worried about covid? Of course. Was I worried about missing a connection or losing baggage? Yes. But what worried me most was crossing into the US with a secret. My secret? Having an affair, writing about it — extensively—and making money from ...(More)
There are many benefits of using day rate hotels as a cheater. First, they’re convenient if you can only meet during the day and don’t want to have sex in the car. You can also use day rate hotels to fly under the radar with privacy and anonymity, as some ...(More)
I was reading an r/adultery subreddit thread and came across this idea called the rubber band theory — what happens when you pull back from an affair partner (AP) without telling them why. It made perfect sense. For context, the original poster talked about her clingy AP and how he ...(More)
Is getting sex inside and outside your marriage such a bad thing? Follow along as I unpack it! ...(More)
Affairs are like any other relationship when you know the person Photo by Zou Meng on Unsplash Affairs follow arcs like all relationships do. If you know the person already, you move towards your affair like you were feeling them out to date. It can be a little confusing, especially if you’re ...(More)
Hi Ya Darlings! I’ve recently rebranded my website to better reflect the service I provide adulterers. As the Adultery Faery makes it clear that I’ll visit upon you everything you’ll need to know about how to cheat without getting caught. In the past, I treated this as a general space but I’ve ...(More)
Boy oh boy! He really was the Best Man Photo by Mitchell Orr on Unsplash My Mother of the Groom duties, such as they were, had mainly come to an end as the dance got into full swing, and took Mark back to our suite and set him up. What a day, ...(More)
Grow a pair and do the right thing Photo by Jairo Alzate on Unsplash I came across this post as I was scrolling Reddit’s r/adultery, and by the time I was finished reading it, I was furious! This lady met her first potential affair partner (pAP) for a coffee date after several ...(More)
Coming down off of a high with your lover sucks Photo by Debora Cardenas on Unsplash Catching feelings for your affair partner is tough to avoid because you’re fighting brain chemistry. There are higher highs and lower lows when you’re in love and as the emotions crash over you there’s little you ...(More)
Who’s a dirty Billy now? Well, that was unexpected. Choir boy Bill Gates wasn’t just stepping out to save the world, I guess, but what a perfect cover story – Bill — heading over to Africa with Jeff Epstein to fight malaria, don’t wait up, k? Melinda — kk have fun Jeffery Epstein & Billbert On the ...(More)
A cautionary tale for cheaters In 2003 Jeff Bezos was in a Texas helicopter crash that saw him, and others suffer minor injuries. The accident occurred on take-off when strong winds blew the helicopter into trees, causing the crash. Many people would be happy to walk away from a helicopter and never go ...(More)
…Should she keep doing it? A happy wife, happy life question on Quora! Out of 17 respondents to my question: If a Wife is Happier at Home Because She is Having an Affair, Should She Keep Doing It? Here’s how they broke down: 15 men / 2 women 7 said yes and ...(More)
But he’s finally getting some swings in Since Charles’ profile tune-up, he’s been getting traction from the ladies. One messaged him and told him his profile was funny, and other women responded to his priority messages. A few weeks ago, Charles decided to focus on a couple of profiles a week, ...(More)
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Just a short note to let you know I’ve taken a few days off posting for personal reasons – nothing bad mind you – just needed a little break following eye surgery. I’ll be back at it this weekend!! ❤️ ...(More)
Having an affair was never my dream as a little girl but shit happens When I saw this, this morning on AM’s Facebook page, and through blurry sleep-filled eyes, I thought, hey, that seems familiar! And it was! AM ran part of my quote from the text I sent them. Of course, ...(More)
Because not all days are created equal My lover and I send each other good morning and good night texts every day. We’ve been doing that for more than two years. They look like this — We do it because we can’t roll over and give each other the kisses and ...(More)
Have a look for yourself! Behind the scenes, Charles and I have been conversing as we get him close to his goal and fulfill my promise to him. To recap – His goal is to find an affair partner My promise was to stick with him until he has sex ...(More)