I have matched dozens of men with women on Ashley Madison by coaching them through the steps that get them there. I’d like to say I’ve developed a technique that works, but I really didn’t develop it – I just use it. If I told you what it is, you’d ...(More)
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Men often don’t know how to approach a woman on a married dating app. Because of that, they either drop a generic greeting like “Hi” or “Hello” or go straight to sex. Both are turn-offs but for different reasons. The generic greeting gives her nothing to respond to, which is ...(More)
Make the sex worth it. I didn’t fall into my affair by accident. I didn’t get drunk at an office party or take an interest in my neighbor. I chose to have an affair without a potential affair partner on the horizon. I didn’t even know how to get there. An affair ...(More)
I dropped my Ashley Madison User Guide prices for you! At $50 each, and $100 for three, I’m sure men weren’t willing to risk the money. What I know that they don’t is my guide’s work. They contain everything I learned working with dozens of clients. I’ve sent thousands of messages ...(More)
Hello my friends, Thank you so much for being there for me! I just wanted to share a short note to let you know that I’m thinking of you this holiday season! It’s cold and snowy in Canada, but after meeting with my lover this week, the fire’s still burning ...(More)
I needed to get away In a sexless marriage, even fun things are tinged with sadness. The sun, surf, and sangria can only take you so far when you know that’s all you’ll get. I won’t have sex, and I knew that, but the cramped quarters rule out orgasms of ...(More)
I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over four years – first as a meek gal searching the unknown married dating space. Then, the second time to reprise a lady’s first time on the app about two years ago, and I still maintain that account. And now, as I write this, ...(More)
Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine had consulted ...(More)
I started chatting with Goose81 on Ashley Madison (AM) three or four weeks ago. He’d sent me a nice message and fit my 40+ criteria, just by a hair — thank god! It was casual at first because I was still chatting with the first-timer, I’ll call NewGuy here. Goose also said ...(More)