I have matched dozens of men with women on Ashley Madison by coaching them through the steps that get them there. I’d like to say I’ve developed a technique that works, but I really didn’t develop it – I just use it. If I told you what it is, you’d ...(More)
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Men often don’t know how to approach a woman on a married dating app. Because of that, they either drop a generic greeting like “Hi” or “Hello” or go straight to sex. Both are turn-offs but for different reasons. The generic greeting gives her nothing to respond to, which is ...(More)
Make the sex worth it. I didn’t fall into my affair by accident. I didn’t get drunk at an office party or take an interest in my neighbor. I chose to have an affair without a potential affair partner on the horizon. I didn’t even know how to get there. An affair ...(More)
The seedy motel where they know my game I booked a sex date with my lover last Friday night but it was hard to find a room. That Friday morning, I texted, why don’t we have a sleepover? I love a sleepover because orgasms like the ones I have tire ...(More)
Don’t be a clown: a warning for men Photo by Quino Al on Unsplash I read a story recently that said every woman in online dating has a man talking to themselves in her inbox. I couldn’t help but smile because it’s so true. I can confirm! Recently, Syd popped ...(More)
The Impact of the 2015 Data Breach Photo by Joey Nicotra on Unsplash Tonight, I found myself alone with a glass of wine and my notepad, so I decided to delve into Hulu’s The Ashley Madison Affair, a three-part series that takes a deep dive into Ashley Madison’s stunning crash ...(More)
And I help them build it a quip at a time Rocky VIIII— Swing and a Miss (Screencap: Author) Rocky VIIII: Swing and a Miss Him — Yeah dear Suzie. I see a great connection when I imagine you. Me — I see a border and a nine hour drive. ...(More)
Navigating adultery for men is what I do now Photo by Dave Hoefler on Unsplash I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over four years — first as a meek gal searching the unknown married dating space. Then, the second time to reprise a lady’s first time on the app about ...(More)
And the answers they seek Photo by Taras Chernus on Unsplash When people hire me to review their adulterous profiles on Ashley Madison and draft some opening messages for them, they usually have some questions. That’s normal. I don’t mind sharing my knowledge, because I know there’s a difference between ...(More)
I dropped my Ashley Madison User Guide prices for you! At $50 each, and $100 for three, I’m sure men weren’t willing to risk the money. What I know that they don’t is my guide’s work. They contain everything I learned working with dozens of clients. I’ve sent thousands of messages ...(More)