If you want to keep your primary relationship. Only 25 you say? The less sexy side of your affair is the ground rules discussion that will help you both work out how it’s going to go and, more importantly, how it’s not going to go. It’s best to discuss them before ...(More)

By learning from others. What was I getting into? I needed to figure it out. I’d mostly decided to have an affair, but something was holding me back. I’d been in a sexless marriage for ten years, and I was dying inside. It took a while to come around to the ...(More)

11 Elements of deception Magicians make bridges disappear. Adulterers make affairs disappear. Both use illusions, but only one is loved for their skill. Magician’s study, practice, perform and repeat. If you want to be a good adulterer, be a magician. Your double life will require the sort of deception you’ve ...(More)

DEAR TERESA: How can I introduce myself to a housewife? DEAR NEIGHBOR: Very carefully. DEAR TERESA: Do you groom more or less than your partner? DEAR MR. CLEAN: More. DEAR TERESA: Do you turn a blind eye to your husband’s unfaithfulness? DEAR WOULDN’T YOU BE LUCKY: I’m the cheater, so, no? DEAR TERESA: What would you do ...(More)

I’ve been trying to figure out my writing process and part of that was keeping this page as I had to renew it this month and I wasn’t sure I’d be doing that. I eventually did, and now I have to figure out how to integrate it into my writing ...(More)

But I needed some dammit! Teresa J Conway Originally published on Aug 18 ·  After nine years of zero sex, out of a 23 year marriage to that point (yes, you read that right), I need to get LAID. Nine years might as well be a decade. Before the drought my ...(More)

Because adultery is boring if you do it right. Boring things don’t get noticed, and that is precisely what you want when you’re having an affair. But should my book have been boring too? Or is it only boring to non-practitioners? These are some excellent questions as both a cheater ...(More)

It’s simple. The most common comment I get across my platforms when I mention cheating is – “Why don’t you get a divorce?” That is a great question. Why don’t I? Here’s the listicle: 1. Divorce is Expensive Not only the cost of the divorce proceeding, but dividing assets, pensions, ...(More)

It was much hotter than I expected. We didn’t know what to expect as we arrived at the top of the stairs. Lusty moans emanated from dark corners and down passageways, yet their makers hidden. Curious and a little nervous, we moved toward the unmistakable sounds of sex. We found ...(More)

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Unzipping his pants in the back seat, I stroked him as we kissed. I was horny too, but I knew he needed me to do this. Taking him in my mouth, his pre-cum, flowed out of him as I ran my tongue over the head. I love how his cock ...(More)

Ticking boxes one at a time. My First Time With A Woman I lay back on the hotel bed and she eased my legs apart, running her fingers over my vulva as she did. Kissing me, she pressed in, moving her fingers in circles above my clit, buried in my ...(More)