Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine had consulted ...(More)
Category: Adultery
I started chatting with Goose81 on Ashley Madison (AM) three or four weeks ago. He’d sent me a nice message and fit my 40+ criteria, just by a hair — thank god! It was casual at first because I was still chatting with the first-timer, I’ll call NewGuy here. Goose also said ...(More)
If you want to keep your finger on the pulse of Adulteryland, Reddit’s r/adultery is where to look. There are 129K members there, all interested in one thing — cheating. This Redditor had never crossed the line, but had cheated online and was wondering what was on the other side of the ...(More)
My lover wrote this and asked me to publish it. It’s a story about napping, which was something we started doing together on our last vacation, and I have to say, it was like heaven on earth. Teresa is a lot of things, but one I like the most is ...(More)
As I entered the hotel lobby, I saw him sitting in a chair, patiently waiting for me. We were both a little early, him more so. We had the room from 9:30–4, but it was a little before nine. I figured they’d let us in as soon as I checked ...(More)
I didn’t have much luck with Ashley Madison (AM) searching for a girl. I received one nice message but was disappointed to discover that to respond, I would have to buy $94.90 worth of credits! I’ve had a couple of girls “wink” at me, but again, to do anything, I’d ...(More)
When I hear a woman referred to as a mistress, I don’t see myself. I picture a beautiful, young, educated, unattached, and unflappable woman. She’s dressed in black, sitting at a bar in an upmarket hotel, sipping a Manhattan, Cosmo, or Aperol spritz — waiting for another woman’s man. Waiting patiently. Waiting ...(More)
I recently traveled to Italy with hub to visit friends. Was I worried about covid? Of course. Was I worried about missing a connection or losing baggage? Yes. But what worried me most was crossing into the US with a secret. My secret? Having an affair, writing about it — extensively—and making money from ...(More)
There are many benefits of using day rate hotels as a cheater. First, they’re convenient if you can only meet during the day and don’t want to have sex in the car. You can also use day rate hotels to fly under the radar with privacy and anonymity, as some ...(More)
Trying to find a new sexy friend is a pain in the ass. By find, I mean to find one that’s right for me. If I wanted to jump on any old cock I could probably find one today and fuck it tomorrow, but that’s not my scene. I created ...(More)
I was reading an r/adultery subreddit thread and came across this idea called the rubber band theory — what happens when you pull back from an affair partner (AP) without telling them why. It made perfect sense. For context, the original poster talked about her clingy AP and how he ...(More)
How an affair can save you from an unfulfilling life Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash For some women, cheating is a precursor to leaving their primary relationship. It’s not so much that they’re testing the waters of divorce, but it’s more a manifestation of their dissatisfaction at home. And not ...(More)
Is getting sex inside and outside your marriage such a bad thing? Follow along as I unpack it! ...(More)
Are you starting out on AM, or are you stuck? Either way, I can help! I’ve been working with men find women on Ashley Madison for nearly two years, and in that time, I’ve developed some unique skills that help men overcome some of the challenges they face getting started. ...(More)
Does it get any sweeter? Number #1 — Messing with the wrong evil genius I thought about covering the N word, but I realized it’s not my place to censor another’s woman’s language-and certainly not this Goddess’! And yes, I think it’s ok that a woman of color uses the N word and I ...(More)
FYI — Wedding vows are two-way streets I’m a married incel, but I don’t blame anyone named Chad like some pimply loser hidden away in some shitty corner of the internet. But I know how he feels. The definition of a sexless marriage is one where people have sex ten times a year ...(More)
Hi Ya Darlings! I’ve recently rebranded my website to better reflect the service I provide adulterers. As the Adultery Faery makes it clear that I’ll visit upon you everything you’ll need to know about how to cheat without getting caught. In the past, I treated this as a general space but I’ve ...(More)
Grow a pair and do the right thing Photo by Jairo Alzate on Unsplash I came across this post as I was scrolling Reddit’s r/adultery, and by the time I was finished reading it, I was furious! This lady met her first potential affair partner (pAP) for a coffee date after several ...(More)
Coming down off of a high with your lover sucks Photo by Debora Cardenas on Unsplash Catching feelings for your affair partner is tough to avoid because you’re fighting brain chemistry. There are higher highs and lower lows when you’re in love and as the emotions crash over you there’s little you ...(More)