It’s hard to get independent proof of happy clients through endorsements when you help them cheat on their spouses. It’s not like they're going to Yelp me:
Teresa at AdulteryFaery.com is such a sweetheart! She helped me meet three women for sex last month, and because of her, and her awesomesauce method, I’m having a threesome tonight!
— Joe Smith, 48, devoted husband and church-goer, Greensboro, Kentucky
Or leave an Amazon book review:
Teresa’s “The Complete Guide to Ashley Madison” set me up for success! Now my profile gets compliments, my messages get opened, and I’ve got married babes lining up to meet me. Without this book, my AM profile was going nowhere, and now? I’m the married manwhore I always knew I could be!
— Barry Jones, 56, father of three and loving husband, Madison, Wisconsin
Instead, I get emails from throwaway Gmail accounts that I can’t verify. And wouldn’t if I could. Outing clients is bad for business. The following is from an email I received after doing a follow-up with a client —
Teresa,
Here is a screenshot of a conversation I had with someone I had written before becoming acquainted with your method. I received no reply, but then I wrote her again after I had revised both my profile and my messaging technique. She wrote me back quite quickly and she liked what I had written, but alas, she had already found someone else. But her response felt good to me anyway.
For background, the client was a well-written man who I enjoyed interacting with. A retired professional, he kept himself busy by playing in a community concert band, when he wasn’t looking for a girl, that is :-)
Here’s the screenshot (full text below pic so you don’t have to zoom in):
Here’s the text of the picture above, for all those listening at home or reading on the small screen —
February 19th
Him — Favorited you
Him — How are you doing? My name is XXX and I’m pleased to “meet” You! We seem to both need a connection that goes beyond just the physical. Let’s communicate on here until we feel comfortable to meet in person! Have a great day and let me hear back from you!
Him — Please send me a key to access your private photos
February 22nd
Him — Hi, I would like to have a conversation with you and get to know you. I await the pleasure of your reply! Best, XXX.
April 3rd
Hi [profile name removed], I wrote you briefly a few weeks ago and now I would like to write a fuller message. Like you, I am looking for a discreet relationship that includes friendship and connection along with the intimacy. Hook-ups and one night stands are hollow and cheap, and ultimately unsatisfying. A real relationship will be -as you point out-based on mutual respect and a desire to get to know the other person on every level. The conversations should be deep as well as humorous and fun. From this the intimacy would naturally follow, as you write: “a great connection of mind, body, and spirit.” Friendship and connection form the foundation of any relationship because they open the door to possibility. If you’d like to kindle a friendship and see if the spark’s there, review my profile-it has been extensively revised and the photos updated (2 of them are from today) — and let me know if you want to connect.
Her — Your priority Message has been opened
Her — Everything so beautifully written and written with a sincere heart! Bravo! You’re a good man! Unfortunately I will decline as I have met someone and hopefully I’ll be off of here soon! I wish you all the best!
Him — I sincerely hope you find happiness and satisfaction in your new releationship. All the best to you!
Highlight reel
February false start
I’ve pointed out the dates in the picture with a red arrow to show when and where what occurred. In February he made a couple of mistakes:
- “favoriting” her
- asking for her pics
I recommend against these because she likely doesn’t look at her favs and asking for pics is a low-class move. It says, sure, we can talk, but I want to see your ass first. That’s not the best way to start an interaction with someone. If you don’t like what she looks like when she does share them, what have you lost? A few minutes of texting? What do you gain? The idea you’re interested in her, and not just her body, like everyone else.
Can women do this? Of course, because when the ratio of men to women is 5:1 the women can basically do as they like. But men? No.
Not for the aforementioned reason, but because every other guy does it. My method relies on not doing what every other guy does so my client stands out.
His February message was ok-ish but lackluster in the sense it doesn’t really speak to her profile and what she’s looking for.
3/30 he found me
April comeback
I always recommend circling back on the odd chance you can catch her interest. Generally, though, once you’ve messaged, she’s not coming back. Whether she remembers or not, she knows there’s a reason she didn’t message the first time.
What’s remarkable is that he got her attention the second time around. And he did that by, as he says, overhauling his profile and taking my advice on messaging. What’s that advice?
Show her you read her profile by speaking to the things she’s mentioned.
He’s also sent a priority message so that he’ll know when she’s opened it. I recommend that because if she doesn’t respond, you at least get the chance to thank her for her time. People like being thanked. It’s polite; if you do it, she’ll think you’re polite. And if she thinks that, she might respond.
The sad news is that she’s found someone, but had she found someone in February? Maybe my client would have had better luck if he had followed my advice.
His last message is perfect and again, reflects more of my advice:
Keep the door open!
Never get pissy with her because she’ll never come back that way. You stay polite, wish her well, and then pray that the other dude doesn’t work out.
Takeaway
For me, my client's email and the screencap clearly demonstrate the before and after effects of having me support you in finding your forever affair partner. To recap:
- Don’t favorite her
- Don’t write a lackluster message
- Don’t ask for pics
- Do follow-up
- Do write a message that reflects/echoes her profile write-up
- Do remain polite
Online dating can be daunting, but with a little help, you can get your feet under you. What I do works for all dating apps mostly because I don’t let my clients be pigs. No sex talk, no unholstered cocks, no promises they can’t keep.
The real secret to my method is it relies on all those men who don’t know what they are doing to make my clients look great. When the odds are 5:1, I consistently get my guys ahead of three competitors; and the game at 2:1 odds is a whole lot easier.
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