And two tips on how to stay off the front page Canada’s recently retired Chief of the Defense Staff, a four-star general, who hung up his uniform on January 14th, 2021, has found himself implicated in a sex scandal from his years in uniform. When I first read about it, I ...(More)
Author: Teresa J Conway
→Author of How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress, several short stories, I'm active on Medium @teresajconway where I sometimes share my blog posts, and I'm a fair-weather tweeter @tjconway69.
His homework was to look at cheating through a woman’s eyes to gain perspective One of the first things I told Charles to do was open a female account on Ashley Madison. I gave him two tasks while he explored his female persona. The first was to assess men’s profiles ...(More)
Analyzing Nine Ashley Madison priority messages The AM credit system sees you convert your cash into credits, allowing you to communicate with women. If a woman sends a man a message, he has to pay to open it. In my experience, I sent very few men messages out of the blue ...(More)
Putting my advice together for you on Amazon! Every little bit helps when you, as a man, are looking to find an affair partner online. There is stiff competition out there for women, so you need to attract their attention. In the animal kingdom, the males use feathers, intricate dances, calls, ...(More)
Here’s what Quora had to say Yesterday I read Marie Murphy, Ph.D.’s article on whether you should tell your partner you cheated, or not, and it got me thinking. Should someone tell their spouse they’d cheated? I tend to say no, don’t bother, because it will only hurt them. When you realize if they ...(More)
Without question, the boys have it rough Last week I received an exciting offer in my electronic mailbag. It was an invitation from a man to interview him. He was just starting on Ashley Madison and had been on the site for a month. For the sake of the article, let’s ...(More)
ADHD takes something away every time it gives you a gift I was diagnosed with ADHD in my forties, but I always knew something was wrong with me. Having the diagnosis was a relief, and so is being medicated for it, but some elements still linger. What is gone is the ...(More)
Looking4James asked for some thoughts so here they are Having had some success with reorienting Charles’ profile, I was approached by another gentleman to see if I could look at his profile. I said sure but wondered if I should start monetizing this. My Medium Sherpa Roz Warren suggested $100 a pop, and ...(More)
Sex isn’t that big of a deal until you don’t get any It had been seven long weeks since I’d seen my lover. We chat by text daily and had one sexy video call, but other than that, there was no physical contact. And when I say no physical contact, I ...(More)
Ugly looking stories have to be pretty damn good to get read There are two elements to every story — How they are told, and What they are about Good storytellers can make a boring story interesting by how they tell it. Bad storytellers can make interesting stories boring the same ...(More)
The lies we tell to save our spouse’s heart “Why don’t you discuss it with your spouse and get their permission?” It’s a good question, and some couples have that discussion, but it doesn’t make cheating easier. A recent question sent from a lady in distress brought up a unique problem ...(More)
Love isn’t easy when you don’t know how to express it. Recently, my lover asked if he could write something for me to publish. He reads most of my work and never fails to point out those small pesky errors I make. My writing gives us something to chat about beyond ...(More)
Hi ya! I just wanted to welcome you to my new and improved website! I’ve been making a little money so thought I’d clean up the old place a little. Let me know what you think of it! Yours Truly, Teresa ...(More)
If you mess this up as a clergyman or other professional, it could be your first and last mistake as an adulterer The first thing anyone thinking about cheating should do is get a throwaway email address. Anything you do with cheating should not lead back to you — at all. That throwaway email should not ...(More)
But what turtle ever sees its tail? I try to respond to my comments because I value the feedback, whether good or bad. Writing should be thought-provoking and challenge norms so disagreement is inevitable. Often though, in our disagreements, we reveal things about ourselves that we may not see about ourselves. ...(More)
The holidays weren’t so bad this year… When he asked me if I wanted to return to the hotel where we first met for sex, my pussy instantly became wet. I replied to his text immediately, God yes! That’s a terrific idea I was so excited I could hardly contain myself, ...(More)
And my poor man missed all the fun! The stars must have aligned that evening because it was one of those rare occasions my boyfriend and I got to spend the night together, and I was off early. Packing my overnight bag, I told hub that I was spending overnighting at ...(More)
The adverse psychological effects of losing physical contact. In ninth grade, I noticed how alone I felt. At lunch, one day, and a few of us sat in an open classroom eating. We joked around, and I demanded a hug for a laugh. My crush was there, and I got it ...(More)
What would I do without him? His love letters always seem to come at the right time. He inspires me and truly is the first person I think of in the morning, and the last one I think of at night. I wonder if my lover shouldn’t start writing here for ...(More)
As I near fifty it’s clear more than half my life is behind me. I will not live to 100, but I can expect to live to 81, which leaves me 30 years. It used to seem like a long time, but now, I know how painfully quickly it can ...(More)
It was the last thing I expected but the only thing I wanted Boy, oh boy, he really should start posting these for himself. Another love note from my man – Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetheart, As I sit here writing this, there’s a gentle snow fall outside, and I wish we ...(More)
Not farted in front of your Affair Partner? Don’t run away with them Farting during an adulterous date can be fatal to the mood. Farting is one of those horrible jokes nature gave us to keep us humble, but we all love a good fart under the right circumstances. Those are ...(More)
I just wanted to say hello! Hello Darlings! I know that I haven’t left a personal message on here in a long time and I see a few of you returning to read my work, so wanted to thank you for that!! I’m not sure without my writing I’d have ...(More)
Court Recognizes Traditional Marriage In a stunning reversal of an oppressive trend in a country where nearly 3300 people are prosecuted for adultery, annually, a man living with his second wife was found innocent of adultery under article 491 of the penal code there. The man who married his second ...(More)
Willy G; you are my 900th Follower Followers and views are vanity metrics because they don’t do much more than make us feel good. But feeling good is sometimes all we need, isn’t it? I’d never thought that I would get more than a few hundred followers, mostly because my niche ...(More)
The QAnon Capital Queen stoops to new lows Let me start by saying — I will never judge a cheater. I won’t for two reasons: It’s bad for business It’s bad for my reputation as a cheater That might sound strange, but I’m not about to throw stones from my glass house, but ...(More)