Exposing Adultery One Homewrecker at a Time

The online sites that shame adulterers

(Graphic: Author on Canva.com)

Getting caught is usually the last thing on our minds when we’re deep in the throes of lust or in the hunt for a new lover, but it’s always there. And it should be because all it will take is one little thing, like when I said I was going to a restaurant my hub knew was closed. If I hadn’t gone past and saw that it was closed for myself, I would have probably dug my own grave talking about how good the nachos were that there was no way in hell we could have ordered.

I think about getting caught all the time, which is why I wrote a book about how to avoid just that. I did that because there are people out there who wouldn’t only mark you with a scarlet letter, they’d seek to digitally tar and feather you.

A fan, wanderingman78, from my email list thought this would make an interesting story, and after looking into it, I agree.

So, how bad can it get?

Have a look at exposehomewreckers.com to find out. Here’s what their “about the site” page says –

We’re here to help victims of infidelity spread the word about mistresses, male sluts and other types of homewrecker. Join our anti-infidelity community and help stop cheaters by reporting gossip about liars and rumors of infidelity, share your story of a homewrecker ruined relationship, warn others of local homewreckers and sluts, and offer support to victims of unfaithful partners.

To make sure no one is confused, they provide this helpful definition –

What is a Homewrecker? Homewrecker (also referred to as home-wrecker; home wrecker) is defined as a person who is blamed for the breakup of a longterm relationship, especially a marriage or family, expecially due to having engaged in an affair with one member of a couple. Example of homewrecker used in a sentence: “she was accused of being a homewrecker.”

If you’re featured on their site, this is how you’ll be portrayed –

If only there was some way to find out who the father of a child was, you know, like some sort of test or something. As for the one on the right, well, Jesus hung out with twelve men and no women, so I’m confident the number of times an ass gets fucked will have no bearing on getting into heaven IMHO. (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)
All I’d say here is she sounds a little thirsty, but doesn’t seem to have a hard time finding a drink. (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)

Then there are the comments –

Why do these people always want the Old Testiment god to sort this stuff out? That asshole kills millions of people at a time for no reason, so do you really think he’s going to give a shit about a girl sitting on the wrong cock? I don’t, and if he does, well fuck him. (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)
Other than the grammar, I’m wondering if he realizes how big babies’ heads actually are? (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)

And here’s a list of other sites doing the same thing –

I didn’t look at any of these ones, but I’m sure they are just as shitty as exposehomewreckers. (Screen cap: Author from RemoveReports.com)

Of course, it never goes wrong –

It is nice to see people standing up for the slandered. This makes me think reporting gossip and rumors isn’t such a great idea, you know, incase they are wrong and shit. (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)

And when it does go wrong, they’re ready to be oh so helpful –

So they’ll take a rumor and gossip at face value, but won’t talk to the person who the rumor is about. It’s hardly surprising. (Screen cap: author from exposehomewreckers.com)

If you are ever in this situation, it appears there are a couple of things you can do, but I doubt if there’s truth to the accusation that it will be removed. These two sites RemoveReports.com and ReputationStars.com appear to be able to help, but again, they will likely only broker the removal of misinformation. And they won’t do it for free.

Here are more removal services –

(Screen cap: Author from RemoveReports.com)

When you cheat, you’re walking on a tightrope without a safety net on the best of days, and we all realize that to some extent or other. In Hawthorne’s time, being marked with a scarlett letter would have been the ultimate humiliation because a woman wouldn’t have anywhere to go.

Today, you can go where ever you want and your scarlett letter will follow you, and needlessly ruin your reputation. Evidence of your adultery could show up in google searches related to job applications, or future relationships, forever haunting you, whether it’s merited or not.

For some reason, many people turn to the bible when they are looking for retribution, but completely forget what Jesus said to the adulteress who was about to be stoned.

And if you don’t have the money to fight back, you’ll likely wear your digital scarlett letter forever.

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Exported from Medium on April 8, 2021.

Author of How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress, several short stories, I'm active on Medium @teresajconway where I sometimes share my blog posts.

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